Wedding Ceremonies
A ceremony as personal as you are.
Bespoke humanist weddings across Northern Ireland, North of Ireland, Ireland, the UK, and wherever in the world your story takes you.
Your wedding ceremony should feel like the heart of the day.
A humanist wedding places you at the centre of it all. There is no fixed script to follow, no words that feel borrowed, no traditions you don't want. Every part of the ceremony is there because it means something to you, your relationship, and the people you love.
I work closely with you to create a ceremony that reflects who you are as a couple, your story, your values, your sense of humour, and the life you are building together. Whether you want something intimate and understated or full of joy and celebration, the ceremony should feel natural, personal, and entirely your own.
Humanist weddings have been legally recognised in Northern Ireland, North of Ireland, since 2018, which means you can marry in a place that feels right for you, from a country house or garden to a clifftop, a family home, or somewhere that holds real meaning in your story.
The process
How it works
A relaxed first conversation
We start with a chat, by phone, video or in person. It is a chance for me to get to know you both, hear about your plans, and understand what matters most to you.
Writing your ceremony
I write a bespoke ceremony shaped around your story, your values, your humour and the kind of moment you want to create.
Refining it together
You receive a draft to review, and we shape it together until it feels right. Your input matters, and the ceremony should feel fully your own.
Your day
On the day itself, I arrive early, prepared and ready to guide things calmly. From the practical details to the atmosphere in the room, everything is handled with care so you can be fully present. I also use professional sound equipment where needed, so your ceremony can be heard clearly and comfortably by everyone there.
Why couples choose Michael
What makes the difference
Shaped around you
Your ceremony is built around your relationship, your story, your people and the tone that feels right for you both.
Calm and steady on the day
I bring warmth, composure and a steady presence, helping everything feel well held and allowing you to relax into the moment.
Inclusive by nature
All couples, all families and all love stories are welcome. Your ceremony is yours, shaped by who you are.
Guided, not formulaic
I work with you collaboratively from beginning to end, shaping the words, tone and feel of the ceremony with care.
Making it yours
The elements that make a ceremony personal
Personal vows
Your own words to each other, with as much guidance or support as you need.
Your story
How you met, what you love about each other, and what has brought you to this moment.
Symbolic rituals
Handfasting, candle lighting, sand ceremonies, ring warming, or something completely your own.
Family involvement
Ways to include the people who matter most, whether through readings, shared roles or meaningful moments.
Music and readings
Songs, poems and passages that reflect your personalities, your values and the atmosphere you want to create.
Tone and atmosphere
Quiet and intimate, full of joy, or somewhere in between. The ceremony should match your energy and feel right in the room.
Kind words
From couples
“He was very friendly, approachable and helpful. He kept in touch well, and he listened to what we really wanted in our ceremony, making it personal to us.”
Amy Sloan-Thomas
“Michael was just an incredible celebrant for our wedding. He came up with a ceremony that was heartfelt, emotional and funny in all the right places.”
Natasha Bryan
“So many of our guests complimented the ceremony and said how much they enjoyed it.”
Lisa Taggart
Let's start planning your ceremony
I'd love to hear about your plans. Get in touch for a relaxed chat.
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